Without boundaries, this devotion can sometimes lead you into unhealthy relationship dynamics. When you're unsure of where to draw the line, it's easy to lose sight of your needs, especially in difficult or toxic relationships.
You may even have a pattern of repeating unhealthy relationships, or finding yourself stuck in a long-term toxic relationship, not knowing how to get out.
Other people talk about things like, ‘red flags,’ but you find the idea of red flags confusing once you're in a relationship. It’s very difficult for you to tell if someone is just having a bad day or if their behavior is actually abusive. You think that maybe if you were just a little kinder or patient, they'd be able to change...
You have so much love to give, but it consistently feels like your loyal heart is taken advantage of or misused. You KNOW you need better boundaries in your relationships...but isn’t love supposed to be unconditional?