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A woman scrambling with eight arms and sweat beading on her brow says, "I am supposed to keep everyone happy so that means I gotta do all the things!" Around her, swirling text reads: I must meet all the needs of all the people. Do more! Always say yes! Don't stop! The text below reads: But when will it ever be enough? Molly Davis 2022 @BoundariedBootcamp FB: Wild Goose Counseling

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OOOOH, WOW!
You're a Helper/Fixer/Giver!

Let's Take a Peek at Your Amazing Superpowers!

You are the Helper/Fixer/Giver. This means you have a generous heart that enjoys helping others as well as a strong desire to see others do well. The rock that others lean on, you have a natural talent for problem-solving, bringing deep comfort to those around you. 

In fact, when someone has a problem, you’re often the first to step in and lend your time, resources, or support. 

You are a truly selfless individual and are often a cornerstone of any community lucky enough to have you — whether it be a family, a friend group, an organization or religious institution, or a workplace.
Relate to Any of These Common Boundaries Challenges? 
Without boundaries, the Helper/Fixer/Giver's compassionate nature often feels more like a liability than a gift. 

That's because when someone else is suffering, you believe it’s your job to fix it. But, let’s face it, there’s one person whose needs you have forgotten: YOURS. Because everyone else's problems come before your own, it's easy to lose sight of your own hopes and dreams. 

People say you can’t pour from an empty cup, but you sure keep trying, and you’re at high risk of burning out (if you haven’t already…). You’re often exhausted, miserable, and hurting. You KNOW it’s time to start taking better care of yourself, but you don’t know how to say ‘no’ without feeling selfish or guilty.
What Would Becoming Boundaried Feel like as a Helper/Fixer/Giver? 
Imagine a world where you’re still the same helpful and generous person your community knows and loves, BUT with a newfound respect for your own well-being. 

With healthy boundaries in place, you can serve others sustainably in a way feels meaningful and fulfilling. When your cup starts getting empty, you gently hit the pause button WITHOUT GUILT and take the time you need to refill it. 

To your surprise, you now have even MORE capacity to help others because you are no longer so exhausted all the time. Ahh, it feels soooo much better than before. Life feels much freer and so much lighter…!

Hey, Helper/Fixer/Giver! 
I think it's time to start enjoying your beautiful giftings as the superpowers they are!

In fact, I've got a gift for you that can help (as in, right now).

Pop on over to your Inbox to open your email from me with your very own Personalized Boundaries Style Assessment (ooooh, yeah!).

You'll also receive an invitation to attend my (totally free!) workshop, The Compassionate Heart's Guide to Better Boundaries. (If it doesn't show up within the next 24 hours, you may have to go rescue it from junk mail).

This Assessment and Free Workshop are my gifts to you, whether we ever go on to work together more closely or not.  

Why? Because the world needs MORE people like you and me, finally (!!!) operating in the fullness of our beautiful giftings.

Hi there. I'm Molly Davis, Counselor-turned-Boundaries-Guide. 

 It's my mission to help kind-hearted people (like you and me) discover how to step into the fullness of our amazing giftings and take joy in our wonderful strengths! 

Far from being restrictive, I say becoming boundaried sets compassionate people free! Finally, we can ENJOY who we are and discover how to love others in ways that don't require us to treat ourselves badly.

Best of all, (as much as I love counseling), I say we don't need to spend years and years in counseling in order to get better boundaries! 

 I've discovered an inside-out way to enjoy better boundaries NOW. My clients (many of whom are counselors themselves) say my approach is doable, empowering, practical, and even fun.

If you'd like to read joyful reviews from graduates, learn more about my totally different approach to boundaries, or check out the program options (including this month's HALF-OFF SALE for Boundaries 101), I invite you to stop by my website and take a peek!

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